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This might be one piece of shit advice, something you need not to hear out to. May be you have some other way out of dealing with this, may be better than what I have figured out! So, the point is at the end of the day, you should listen only to your heart.

There are so many times we fail but do you know there are two types of failures. The one in which you are strong and fit and focused but you lose a game. That is not the true failure, by the way. However, there is this kind of failure in which you don’t even try and you feel week. So, basically you are not in the competition only. This is the time when the world seems to go against you. There are people who should have helped you but they don’t. So many expectations do get shattered and at the end of the day, you only have people to blame! But, do you really think that it is because people did not supported you that you failed. Do you think it is the responsibility of others to decide what is right for you? Do you believe that it is the people who should console you when you are sad and being connected with you is their responsibility?

 Well, you know, for a very long time I believed it as well. Obviously I did not blamed people for my failure, however, I did felt that they should have been by my side. So, since now I have gained some ground there is no point in talking with them.

But, you know, when you do carry that negativity it simply means that you still hold on to that failure. However, the true fact of life is that you are responsible for yourself. So, no matter what happens to you it is completely your responsibility and that of no one else. The world turns positive and the world turns negative and all of that is the game of life. Everyone is simply a player playing their role. However, it is in these weak moments that you do figure out the real people of your life. So, stick to them and forget about others. Meet them with kindness and love but make sure your priority list is checked. Holding on grudges is only going to  make you weak and there is nothing you are going to gain from it.

Do you work that is important. No one is going to help you because they are busy playing their games as well. So, don’t hate the ones who do not help but then do remember the ones who do help you. Keep the positivity close to you and focus on work. The only thing you need to make sure is that you become the best version of yourself.