Do you make stories? Imagine what things could be or what things could have been in the past! Have you found yourself staring the fan for a long time and when someone comes and talk to you, you feel disturbed? Well, in short are you like me? “THE DAY DREAMER”. Well, I have been a day dreamer for as long, as I don’t even remember. And I can not even promise that I am no longer a day dreamer. But with time, there are certain things that I surely have realized and I thought may be I should write about it( you see likhe bina toh saas he ni li jati :P). There surely are some major problems with day dreaming.
- You get fucked for the reasons you created yourself-: How could you create your own reasons? You know, it might sound absurd, but it does happens. When we imagine things, most of the times they happen accordingly. Now the problem is when we imagine, we usually imagine it in a very dramatic way. All thanks to the movies that we watch! So, for example, may be you don’t like a person or you have a cold war with a person. What do you do? You imagine or I imagine a very dramatic fight out of it. The dialogues, the situations, the scenarios, rather everything. What happens? It might be possible that the cold war was just a illusion in our minds or it could be possible that it is something that could heal off with time. But, when you imagine it in a worse way, things happen in a drastically bad way. So, hence proved, you get fucked up for the reasons you created yourself.
- You become a pendulum-: Pendulum?? I’ll tell you. When we imagine things to be, they usually are because of certain past experiences that we had. And what do we imagine about, well, the future. So, what happens? You keep dangling between the past and the future. So, somehow, the present gets lost. Because you are not doing anything about the present! And since nothing is being done in the present, nothing will come back to you in the future.
- You miss out on life-: You know sometimes, life is quite tricky. It gives you what you want, but not the way you want it. So, if you plan things, or day dream them, and as usual they don’t happen accordingly, you get screwed up. Sometimes, we end up thinking that may be it is not meant to be! And it goes on for entire life. In the end, you lose out on your life.
I am able to tell you these things because I have lost a lot with this day dreaming shit. There have been some major events and even some things I am still not able to get out of. But, with time I am realizing things and I hope that you may not miss things that you regret later on in your life.
Go on, live life. Don’t day dream or imagine things to happen in a particular way. You can trust anyone, it could be God, Life, Karma or like me, the entire freaking universe. Just trust that if you have been given this life, every thing has already been sorted out as well. And all you need to do is, Just trust, and move with your life. Because no matter who says what, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL 🙂
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