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Regret, Guilt, Irritation, Tears, Isolation, Depression and finally Death. Well, yes “DEATH” is the final destination of silence. It begins with regret goes on and ends in the coffin. You may wonder what the hell am I even talking about. Out of all the extreme diseases like Ebola or AIDS or Diabetes, it is the silence that kills us?? Well, yes it does. And the best part we never realize when did we become zombies( living dead).

So, hey you, have you ever fallen in love? Have you ever felt like abuse in public? Have you ever felt like replying back to the ones who bully you? Have you felt like going to your boss and say them in the face, “ I hate your job, keep to yourself”? HAVE YOU?

And what have you done? Kept silent? Didn’t speak your mind and led yourself to lose the ones you loved. Carried on with the job that is eating you. And take on with the bullies who are no good than you. If you are any one of them, then trust me, all you need to do is, SPEAK UP!

Go tell the one you love, that you really love them. What will happen? At max they would say, sorry we don’t.  So what? The only thing that he/she said is a No!! They didn’t stop you from trying. Or did they? Maybe they say would say, “I want to be friends”. Now what? At least you are free now. You have just spoken your mind! CONFIDENTLY. And now go fight for it. We are often afraid of losing them and choose to be silent, but trust me, this way you lose, first yourself and then them!

There is this one person bullying you, beating you or may be harassing. Big thing. I agree. But then, how did you assumed that if you fight back you will lose. How do you know, even before trying that no matter what you do, you can’t fight back? Did some supernatural powers tell you that? Well, I don’t think any supernatural powers would do that. FEAR. Yes, it is. Fear. Fear that you will be alone. Fear that they may kick you. Fear that maybe if you speak your mind, you may lose things. And then you lose the most important thing in your life. And that is YOU. So, anyone there, who is being bullied, FIGHT BACK. Trust me there is no more powerful weapon than CONFIDENCE. FACE THEM. Eye To Eye. And TRUST ME, the ones who bully or beat or harass are the weakest of all. And the only thing making them strong is you.

You hate it. Hate that damn job. That boss of yours. That office. Those timings and that person in that corner. Yes, you hate it. Hate your job. You feel like leaving but you don’t. Thinking if you lose the job, the society might criticize. How will you earn your bread? So many worries and you end up, killing yourself day by day. I know there might be responsibilities. I know at times things get tough. But then, just imagine. What if? What If you die? What about responsibilities then? Those tensions? Those worries? They would all be gone. Because they were yours. And people remember you only when you can be helpful. What next then?? There is no next then. You can’t do anything.  So, SPEAK UP. Leave that damn job. Do something that you like. Something you really want to. The money would come eventually. And, remember, you can do good to others, only, by doing good to yourself.

So, SPEAK UP, FIGHT BACK, and remember, THIS IS YOUR LIFE AND YOU ARE THE CEO OF IT.

BE HAPPY, STAY BLESSED 🙂